Denise Moreira [email protected] Marisa Aranda [email protected] BRAZILIAN CHILDREN IN LONDON: SOCIAL RELATIONS IN CONTEXT OF IMMIGRATION Abstract Great Britain appears as the European country with the highest concentration of Brazilians. In this context, we seek to understand the impacts of the international trajectory of Brazilian children in their relational dynamics in London. In order to capture the dynamics of relationships between children, one ethnographic study was used because it provides a methodological approach that focuses on the immersion into the search field beyond appearances and satisfies our theoretical perspective to appreciate the relationship between time and space for understanding social phenomena. As an ethical principle adopted in the collection, analysis and interpretation of data, it was necessary the informed consent, children's participation in research and multivocality. Data were collected in interaction spaces frequented by girls and boys from 4 up to 16 years of age in their after-school spaces. This article presents a case study of the strategies adopted by children to cope with the impact of migration on social relations. We hope it contributes to the discussion about the child from the perspective of the 'sociology of childhood', which considers the child as the protagonist in the interpretation of their subjective, social and discursive experience. We also hope that this study will be useful for a better understanding of the immigrant child. Keywords: child migration; social relationships; sociology of childhood. Introduction Studies of international migrant children put emphasis on factors that affect the social interaction and its resulting phenomena. Among the factors of influence on the interactions, studies indicate monolingualism and physical environmental changes. Among the phenomena resulting from Monolingualism and changes, include ethnic-national identity, social competence, acculturation and generational conflicts. In studies dealing with the influence of factors on the interactions, the emphasis is on the negative effects of migration. Fritzen (2008) identified in a monolingual school a stigmatization of minority languages. Siller (2011) identified in a school dedicated to the assimilation of national standard language, religion and local culture, foreign children with ashamed of their origin and prejudice against other foreign children. Mota, Franco and Motta (1999) observed the vulnerability of migrant children to environmental changes and identified migration as an event capable of changing patterns of family organization and states of health and illness of the child. Pizzinato Sarriera and Castella (2004) investigated the differences between immigrant children and non-immigrant. The researchers concluded that immigrants were more isolated and less aggressive. They also found that there was a tendency for hybridization of identity between the two groups. The results indicated an adaptive process of immigrants and maintenance of culture by the natives. Studies dealing with the phenomena arising from multicultural interactions, although they recognized its negative impacts, tend to emphasize the positive aspects of international migration. Mota (2008) noted the occurrence of cultural assimilation, but considered the possibility of moving towards transnationalism. Soto (2010) found that despite the impacts of migration on generational relationships in blended families, it was possible to observe the participation of children as social actors in their everyday lives. The researcher also found that migration projects are increasingly associated with well-being and development of children. This brief explanation presented the results of research conducted in school settings. Hopefully the data presented below, obtained outside of schools, can help broaden the discussion on the international migrant child. The data reveal strategies adopted by immigrant children in an attempt to resolve their conflicts. Method The field research in London revealed that any script tend to overshadow the meanings of this universe for children, however, was necessary to maintain traditional forms of record. Thus the attitude to film, photograph and record everything, emerged as the best alternative, in addition to the freedom of choice of the forms of expression of children. Thus, drawings and said and written, illustrated or not, began to compose a diverse sample material. There is no way to sort and categorize the information gathered from a study in which the parties can make decisions about what, how, where and when to say it. It was necessary to forget the matter which gave rise to the investigation. However, there may be science in a passive mode of data collection? Eventually, the idea of passive exited the plane of appearances. The time has come to find the answers to the issues that gave rise to the investigation, the time to do the removal of an entire fragment as part of a complex whole and unravel the moment everything seems to lead to the same place. Time to do textual analysis. Regarding the analysis of the interviews and texts written by children, the option of processing the data was deconstruction. For Derrida (2001), the words do not have the ability to express everything you want to express. So you need to take it apart in an attempt to retake the origin of hidden thought by familiarity. The goal of deconstruction is to reveal assumptions, ambiguities and contradictions, in an attempt to avoid reductionism. The analysis of the images, drawings (Malchiodi, 1998) and photographs (Collier, 1973), resulted in fragmented perception of things. Gradually, with the intention of seeing everything, it was possible to see more, surface and depth. Image analysis helped draw further conclusions and levanter new doubts. We must inform you that this exhibition does not bring the images analysed in the study, but only their results. The school environment was excluded from observation. In the school, there is a constant correction of imagination on the part of reason. The study by Thompson (2011) on the artistic production of immigrant children in an American school revealed that the deviation from drawings resulted in the assessment of an extremely talented child as maladjusted. Just as in the illustration, the child's behaviour in school follows the standards established institutionally. Contrary to that, in general, adults expect of children in school, the child perceives and judges by emotion. However, not only common sense, many educational theorists, such as Émile Durkheim, Sigmund Freud and Immael Kant, expect see child behave with adult. The investigation took place away from adult control. The separation of adults contributed to access cultures of childhood (James, Jenks and Prout, 2004). The spaces were, besides the residences, clubs, parks, shops, parties, doctor's offices, as well as the path between home and school. Results The following results correspond to the case study of 1 between 21 children in this study. The choice for this, among the cases examined, is justified in the comprehensiveness of the information contained in this history. This is the story of a Brazilian girl who arrived in London in July 2011. Their story was told and illustrated by other children. The children told she used the self-flagellation strategy to draw attention of the school and she succeeded. In June 2012, she returned to Brazil. However, in December 2013 she returned to London and was thus able to tell your story. The girl began his narrative with a description of the arrival in London. Said he came with his sister and grandmother, with whom they had always lived. “Eu cheguei. Tinha acabado de fazer 12... Foi um choque aqui pra mim. Aí, nossa, eu chorava, chorava (...). Queria voltar (...) pro Brasil. Minha vó que veio. A gente sempre morou com minha vó... Aí veio eu ela e minha irmã.”. Among children in this study, two-thirds do not lived with their parents before going to London and arrived in the country only 5 or 6 years after the arrival of the parents. The justification for this attitude by parents may be due, among other factors, the public policies adopted in the country. The state provides benefits for children and their parents (Mota, 2004). Benefits include public schools, free transport for children who are of school age and assistance for housing. As soon as she arrived in London, she entered into a program of interim studies with classes in English and other free activities. There she remained for three months to be called by a nearby home school. She said she wanted to start studying. However, she did not like school. She asked the mother to change schools, but her mother never tried. “Entrei (...) num projeto (...). Fiquei acho que uns 3 meses lá e depois chegou uma carta... para eu poder começar a estudar (...). Eu tava doida para começar a estuda, só que eu não sabia como que era a escola (...). Não gostei! Não conseguia mudar de escola. Minha mãe também (...) nunca tentou.”. The comparison between age and adaptive capacity of children in the study showed that the older the child, the lower is its adaptability. The biggest 11 year old revealed miss the friends from Brazil and lamented the difficulty to make new friends in London. While girl remained in school, she made friends. She started going to the parks, but says that, despite never having done anything wrong, her mother never believed. The following year, she asked to go back to Brazil, but her mother ignored his request. She emphasized that her mother always asked affection, but never gave affection. “Minha mãe sempre desconfiou de mim. Só que eu nunca fiz nada errado. Nunca consumi droga. Eu sou contra! Só que me deu na telha de ir embora. Eu fazia tudo pra ir embora, só que ela não me dava atenção. Ela quer atenção, quer carinho mas não dá em troca.”. Lack of attention from parents was the most frequent complaint made by the children in this study. One possible reason for this may lie in the time devoted to the family. In more than two thirds of cases, parents work more than 8 hours per day, which includes weekends. Evans (2010) showed in their study of 426 Brazilian investigated in 2006, residing in London, an average of 42 hours of work per week for the entire sample. The difficulty to get the attention of his mother made the girl go in search of some strategies. The girl noticed that one of his friends cut his own arm to get attention and he got it. She then decided to do the same. However, she only had the courage in the day that a schoolmate caused enmity between her and another colleague, who threatened to hit her. “Aí eu vi minha amiga conseguindo um monte de coisa cortando o braço (...). Eu falei: ah, vai ser o jeito, ne? E eu era meio doidinha da cabeça (...). Tive coragem, não. Fui assim com a caneta socando no meu braço. (...) no outro dia, na escola os meninos queriam me bater (...). Aí eu peguei e vim pra casa (...) fui para o banheiro e comecei a me cortar com gilete os dois braços.”. The occurrence of violence in schools has been the second biggest complaint of the children in this study. From age 8, all children have a history of aggression to tell, either with themselves or with other colleagues. Sebastian (2003) believes that violence in schools have various discussions in the media. After the threat of assault made by his colleague, at home, she cuts with a razor blade in both arms. Then she was sorry and to cover them, she began to use sleeve shirts fulfilled. Until one day, after making more cuts, she went to school."(...) um dia na escola, depois que eu me cortei em casa, começou a arder muito (...). Besides the child protagonist of this story, all the other children who have more than 11 years in this study can remember one or more episodes of self-flagellation told by a colleague or witnessed by themselves. For scholars in the subject, self-flagellation and an observable practice in children in adolescence (Smith, 2002). Two very common features in the practice of self-flagellation is the attitude to make cuts without suicidal intent and the habit of wearing long-sleeved shirts to cover up injuries. Some scholars consider the self-flagellation as punishment or as an attempt to draw attention (Barrocas et al, 2012). The intention of the girl was seeking help in school. The intention of the girl was seeking help at school. She resorted to a teacher he trusted. “(...) aí eu fui e falei assim: vou conversar com o professor (...) ele vai saber o que fazer comigo porque eu preciso de ajuda.”. The teacher took her to the school psychologist. After the conversation with the psychologist, she said it would bid farewell to friends and go. Psychology said, then, that after taking leave of friends, she should come back again in his office. When she returned to the office, through the window, the psychologist asked if the woman coming toward them was his mother. The romanticization of families favours the vulnerable situation of the child. In one third of the testimony of children in this study there is evidence of domestic violence expressed in drawings, texts or speeches. For Silva (2002) the vulnerability of children in relation to families is a fact that has increased. The girl said that when she asked the help of the teacher, things at home were not right. Besides not giving him attention, his mother rented a space in the same room in which she slept. “(...) já tinha acontecido um monte de coisa aqui em casa, eu já tinha ficado chateada com minha mãe porque ela colocou um homem pra dormir no meu quarto e eu fiquei muito triste (...).”. About a third of parents of children in this study have an area of your home to inhabit others. In general, places are open to women. For Evans et al (2013), housing problems for Brazilians in London are related discrimination. This finding may explain the clustering of Brazilians in neighbourhoods and homes in the city. The girl's mother came to the school accompanied by an interpreter and reported that he had bought the ticket for her daughter to return to Brazil and her daughter knew. The girl claimed not to know and judged the attitude of the mother as an attempt to absolve themselves of blame. “(...) minha mãe (...) falou assim: Não tinha necessidade dela ter feito isso. Eu até já tinha comprado a passagem dela e ela sabia. Ai, eu falei: não, eu não sabia e ela fez isso só pra tentar amenizar para o lado dela. (...) eu contei que ela (...) não dava atenção! Nunca deu! (...) Ela falou: “(...) eu sempre dou carinho pras minhas filhas (...) A tradutora (...) sabia da história, só que ela (...) só podia traduzir o que minha mãe dizia. Não podia falar a verdade.” The difficulty of parent communication tends to distance them from their children's schools. The mediation of dialogues between parents and school happened in over two thirds of cases. Only after learning to speak English is that children assume the position of interpreters of their parents. To Mota (2004), the difficulty of adults in learning the language as opposed to the speed with which the child learns, creates a familiar environment of competition and exploitation of children by parents. At school, during the meeting between the girl and her mother, a psychologist advised the girl to avoid this type of behaviour. The girl said she realized she did wrong, but she managed to return to Brazil: “Aí eles conversaram comigo, mandou nunca mais eu fazer isso. Não, nunca mais eu vou fazer! (...) quando eu cheguei no Brasil, mudei assim minha cabeça, completamente. Pensei muito no que eu fiz e vi que era errado. Não tive maturidade.” In Brazil, the girl faced other problems. So she returned to London: “No começo do ano quando eu cheguei lá (no Brasil), eu ainda tava meio doidinha ainda da cabeça, né? Tudo o que me pediam eu fazia.”. Back in London, the girl repeated to herself his belief that ultimately matured: “Agora eu to com outra cabeça. Já sei o que é certo e o que é errado.” The school advised the girl to manage personal stress. Proposals for intervention aim to develop individuals in their ability to manage personal stress. Intervention cases whose consequence is the change in behaviour, for overcoming tensions, are described in the literature, in general how resilience (McCubbin and Patterson, 1983). Among the assumptions, ambiguities and contradictions that the girl has in his speech, is noteworthy: as assumption: the girl believes the experience helped her understand what is right and what is wrong; as ambiguity: the girl admitted that he was wrong; as a contradiction: the girl said she had never done anything wrong. Moreover, in their quest for complicity, the girl said her mother always asked for affection and attention, but the mother never gave attention to daughters. Discussion Although longitudinal, the duration of this research is not enough to ensure the overcoming of tensions resulting from the conflicts described here, mainly because there was no attention to the cause of the problem, but only its effects on the child. Some studies show evidence of improvements in migration projects in host countries, but arrangements are restricted to seeking resilience of children and their families as a means of resolving conflict of generations. However, the solutions tend to guide the child to the subordination to adults, with his unquestionable maturity. We note the absence of discussions on the possibility of mutual respect between adults and children. Many values in generational relationships need to recast to ensure the safety of children due to their natural weaknesses. You need to qualify institutional mechanisms for listening to the voices of children free of stereotypes historically built on family and childhood. 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