Youth, Gender and Public Space Project 2011 BOARD OF DIRECTORS Luciana Guimarães Melina Risso SYSTEMATIZATION COORDINATOR, INFORMATION AND REFERENCE Ligia Rechenberg 260, Luis Murat 05436-040 São Paulo - SP Tel: +55 11 3812-1333 www.soudapaz.org [email protected] COMMUNICATION COORDINATOR Daniela Caldeirinha YOUTH, GENDER AND PUBLIC SPACE PROJECT Coordinator: Gabriel Di Pierro Assistant: Marília Ortiz Preparation Guide: Gabriel Di Pierro and Marilia Ortiz Review: Daniela Caldeirinha, Ligia Rechenberg, Mônica Zagallo and Vania Regina Fontanesi Translation Volunteers: Keyllen Nieto, Bekah Hunt, Silvana Cabral Mendonça, Wilmi Pwa and Silvia Adriana Martins. Photos: Andrea Lynch, Gabriel Di Pierro, Marília Ortiz and Reginaldo Lima Graphic Design and Layout: Janaina Siqueira Issue 1 / 2011 This guide is a product of the Youth, Gender and Public Space Project 3rd edition, implemented by the Instituto Sou da Paz in partnership with EMPower. Conceptual framework Conceptual Sheet 01: Identity and gender norms Conceptual Sheet 02: Diversity, sexuality and violence Conceptual Sheet 03: “Masculine” violence Conceptual Sheet 04: Violence against women Conceptual Sheet 05: Women’s rights Preparing activity: some recommendations Additional references > Recommended sites > Audiovisual materials > Educational videos > Educational textbooks > Other texts that discuss the topics of this Guide Activities Activity 01: The models I see Activity 02: Dynamics of “agree” and “disagree” Activity 03: Interactive Mural: We have all kinds of people Activity 04: Performing a scene and switching the roles Activity 05: Men and women in the media: questioning references Activity 06: Stencils for gender equality Activity 07: Sexism and violence Activity 08: Changing the course of history: other ways to resolve conflicts Activity 09: What’s up? Designing a “zine” respect for diversity Activity 10: “Photo-novelas” on teenage parenthood Introduction Instituto Sou da Paz is a civil society organization of public interest which, for over ten years, has been contributing with the effectuation of policies for public safety and violence prevention guided by the values of democracy, social justice and human rights. Youth is a focal point for action at Instituto Sou da Paz, since they are most vulnerable to the dynamics of violence. The projects developed by the Youth and Adolescent Area at Instituto Sou da Paz act to promote democratic occupation of public spaces, encourage peaceful conflict resolution and create an empowering environment for young leaders to transform their communities. Between 2003 and 2005, Instituto Sou da Paz implemented the project “Peace Poles” to revitalize two public squares in the city of Sao Paulo (in the districts of Campo Limpo and Jardim Ângela). The project relied on the transformative potential of the community, especially young people. During the project implementation, it was observed that participation by young women in the activities taking place in the squares was much lower than that of men. The “Youth, Gender and the Public Space Project” was then designed to understand why women’s participation was limited. In 2007 a diagnosis was performed with the young men and women living in the region of intervention and revitalization. The research pointed to several factors that discourage women from frequenting public spaces such as: community prejudices against women who “stand in the street,” delegation of house chores and family care to women, forceful mediation of occupation of public spaces (especially sports courts).Following this survey, the project held workshops with young people in the studied neighborhoods, using different artistic languages to encourage the discussion of gender issues and the expansion of female participation in their communities. Based on that information, a second edition of Project Youth, Gender and Public Space was held in 2008 to raise gender awareness among managers, administrators, the public and nongovernmental organizations that promote cultural and sports activities for young people in public spaces. Aiming to encourage democratic and equal employment and contribute to the increase in female participation in public spaces, some 40 managers have undergone a training course. The third edition of the project, implemented between 2009 and 2010, was carried out at two institutions - the EMEF Padre José Pegoraro School, in the Grajaú neighborhood and the Helena Portugal Albuquerque Youth Center, in the Jaçanã neighborhood. During this time, several action were performed in partnership with the staff and the surrounding community which promoted gender equality and democratic coexistence among young people. Professionals and students alike received training and technical support to develop teaching practices that include the contents of gender. With the support of the Youth, Gender and Public Space Project - 3rd edition, several actions were conducted in both regions in partnership with the community and local leaders. Such activities included sports and cultural events to encourage participation of young women, artistic interventions of juvenile groups of the Southern Region on the theme of gender, and the formation of a network with various organizations to improve care to women victims of violence in the Northern Region. There were also gender and communication workshops with young men and women to develop social communication campaigns for gender equity, using alternative vehicles such as a newspaper mural, stencils and “zines”. To guide the professional staff in the institutions, sensitize the community and stimulate the reflection of young people on gender issues, the Youth, Gender and Public Space project team researched a number of materials and references to develop activities that appeal to the interests of youth. We conducted a series of workshops seeking to promote peaceful coexistence and the appreciation of diversity, contributing to critical reflection on the models of femininity and masculinity, discouraging violence among youth, especially males, and enhancing female participation. Through the workshops, young people reflected on the gender issue from their experiences. This guide for educators is based on the achievements and experiences accumulated during the 3rd edition of the Youth, Gender and Public Space Project. Besides the step-by-step instructions for how to replicate the workshops, the Guide contains handouts on topics related to gender and its connection to violence, which are reinforced though activities and references to websites, videos and supplementary texts for consultation. Convinced that democratic values are important references for the construction of peaceful coexistence, we have no doubt that the gender perspective must be incorporated when working with youth to encourage them to “think outside and come out of the boxes.” We are invested in institutions that serve this audience, believing in their great potential to boost cultural transformations. We therefore hope that this guide helps educators incorporate a gender perspective in their work with young people, encouraging the construction of more equitable relationships, and a more just and peaceful society. Enjoy your reading! How to Use This Guide The Guide is organized in three parts. Ideally, the educator will read all the conceptual texts before conducting any of the educational workshops, and will seek to deepen their understanding of issues that raise questions by consulting other bibliographic references listed at the end of this Guide. Additional references The last part indicates a series of Web sites, videos and bibliographical references related to the themes of the guide, which can both assist the educator in preparation of the workshops, and serve as complementary material for the realization of new activities for the students. Activities In the second part, there are recommendations for how to prepare and conduct workshops. Aside from the step-by-step instructions for how to carryout each activity, the Guide provides tips and stories based on the experience of the team that produced this material. Conceptual framework In this section, there are short texts that introduce important concepts to reinforce the concepts presented with the youth. They are organized into the following topics: identities and gender models; diversity, sexuality and violence; “masculine” violence; violence against women; and women’s rights. Conceptual Sheet Identity and gender norms What is it to be a man or a woman? To help answer this question, you may need to consider that, when we talk about identities, there is not one way that is correct or final. People are constantly undergoing transformations, changing interests and desires, reorganizing projects, altering daily practices and how they perceive themselves and others. Collective (groups, societies) and individual identities will be influenced by life experiences, models, rules and discourses, producing new meanings and directions for the various dimensions of their lives - work, family, love, etc. The idea that differences between men and women are natural and defined by differences in biological bodies has long prevailed in most societies. Women would have been born with a greater ability to care for the home and children, while men had greater skills to work outside, through physical efforts and assumption of leadership positions. These are just some of the many concepts that have marked the distinctions between the sexes; concepts that were used to justify women’s subordination and the unequal relations between men and women. When feminism gained momentum in the second half of the twentieth century, some researchers proposed replacing the term “sex differences” with “gender differences” as a way to show that culture influences the course of being a man and woman through values, practices and discourse. The concept of gender attempts to show that these models for behavior are learned throughout life, change over time and vary between historical and social contexts. It is, for example, very different being a woman in Brazil and Afghanistan, as well as being a woman in 1930 or 2010. Areas of institutional or informal socialization permanently offer models that become embedded from childhood. An example are families, when they define the “boy” toys - as the ball and the sword - and the “girl” ones - like the doll, the little stove and cookware. The same goes for clothes, furniture and colors of a room and so many other choices that show a particular way of looking at the child. Another important space in our training is school, where teachers express and affirm values, ideas and behaviors that they consider appropriate for each sex in the classroom. As our universe of relations widens, the influence of friends and all that we perceive as social expectations and possibilities of being socially recognized is also important. This will give clues for how to deal with emotions, how we should behave sexually, make career choices, etc. When thinking of identity in modern society, we should not underestimate the power patterns of consumption and mass culture have on people, especially young people. Videos, magazines, web pages, television programs, advertisements and products offered to them are some of the elements that exert great influence on behavior, the formation of taste, aesthetic standards and life-styles and self-expression. Certainly, in these consumer products exist gender models that are both valued and not. A standard action movie shows strong men and warriors who use weapons and conquer beautiful women; at the same time, magazines bring more and more sections that teach women to care for the body in order to be more desirable and “feminine”. It is important to highlight that these patterns change significantly from one social group to another. Among the most important cross-cut analyses which produce significant differences are social class, geographical region and ethnicity-race. So something that can be valued in a particular context can vary considerably when we shift our focus to another place or group of people. An example is the expectation in the wealthier classes that the youth delay their entry to the labor market and child rearing, while in the lower class youth are encouraged to work at a younger age and teen pregnancy is more commonplace naturally. Moreover, it is possible to relate to these models in highly variable forms, not just as ready references. We can perceive the information coming to us in a critical way and thus adapt the models to what we believe is best for us and our environment. We are also producers and disseminators of new ways of living femininely and masculine. Because of this, it is essential that educators working with young people help them make a critical reading of gender models and whatever is valued and legitimated through them. 1 1 The questioning of certain barriers that have already been lifted is inevitable when we think of a more democratic and less unequal society. Why is an aggressive, domineering, sometimes health and physical integrity risk-taking man is still so valued? Why do so many men fail to see fatherhood as an important and healthy form of masculinity? Why is the most valued woman one whose body is considered “desirable” by men? What is the possibility of her being accepted when she decides to live independently, when she expresses interest in exploring (or using) her sexuality freely, without being stigmatized? Why do we still find justifications to legitimize violence against women or to sustain biases against homosexuals? When identities are trapped by rigid models and yet so ingrained, even our adherence to them goes unnoticed and our ability to choose and change reality is considerably reduced. As we become aware of these models and understand that they are the result of cultural constructs, we become able to choose our paths and act as producers, driving the transformation of cultural values and conquering our desires, interests and projects, both personal and collective. Conceptual Sheet Diversity, sexuality and violence When we talk about gender relations, we are also talking about diversity and how people deal with it and solve the conflicts which are inherent to interaction between people. When working with boys or girls, it is clear that issues such as race, ethnicity, social class and sexual orientation influence their quality of life and how they socialize. Although it is not true that differences inherently produce inequalities, it is true that all forms of inequality have their origin in how society treats the differences between people, rich and poor, white and black, men and women, heterosexuals and homosexuals, and so on. Therefore, there are privileged groups in society and there is always a power relationship at work in across and within social relations. These power dynamics cans often manifestation through intolerance, systematic practice of violence against others, seeking to put the other in an inferior position usually with the aim to legitimize or reaffirm a particular identity, position or characteristic of individuals and groups. Homosexual, bisexual and transgender people constitute a social group that is particularly affected by violence and discriminatory practices. In public schools, 87% of the community - whether students, parents, teachers or servers - have some degree of prejudice against homosexuals, as revealed by a survey conducted in 2009 by the FEA / USP (Brazil). Homophobia, biphobia and transphobia clearly demonstrate how models operate in gender relations, showing biased social expectations in relation individual sexuality, despite all the achievements of the movement in favor of the affirmation of sexual diversity. Heteronormativity is a form of social regulation of sexuality that values the intimate relationship between people of opposite sexes (heterosexual) over all other intimate relationships. At the same time, men are being pressured to reaffirm their role as a sexually and socially active subject in varied forms, as opposed to passivity, which would indicate the place of the homosexual. In this view, homosexuality represents the loss of male honor, and consequently of all the status associated with it. On the other hand, women are encouraged to occupy a place of inferiority, whose value lies in the possibility of her body being the object of male desire, as it happens, for example, in much of Brazilian funk music. DOMINANT AND SUBMISSIVE It is not uncommon for educators to discover a conflict situation originated in the fact that a girl is “too masculine” or that the boy is considered “sensitive,” or feminine. Feeling cornered, some of these adolescents and youngsters start to act aggressively as a means to “survive” the offenses of colleagues or as an expression of a conflict between the personal needs and interests and collective demands. Some educators may find it difficult to act, prevent, or intervene in the problem. In that case, the educator’s tasks are to discuss with the group the importance of respecting differences, to clarify myths and prejudices and to develop practices for exploration, affirmation and acceptance of diversity. Contrary to what one might think, sexual orientation is not a simple choice of the person, but something much more complex. Indeed, the desire is something we have little control over, it is part of a process of discovery and does not necessarily remain the same throughout life. However, there is significant pressure for a person to “take a stand” as soon as possible, to demonstrate being “a real” man or woman. When we work from a gender perspective, there is not one single and natural way of being a man or woman, but multiple possibilities of femininities and masculinities. Valuing these differences helps young people to be more autonomous, happier with their choices and also more welcomed by the group, even when they choose to relate sexually and emotionally with partners of the same sex. Preserving and promoting diversity is a key challenge for us to live in a healthy and peaceful society. Globalization, new information and communication technologies provide unprecedented conditions that intensify the contact between different cultures and between people in general. Those new tools offer further ways to live together which should be cultivated constructively through educational activities, giving visibility to those who are not endowed with power, deconstructing accepted models and creating new ways of living and making a difference. 2 2 Tolerance should not be presented as a passive way of accepting the other as a burden, but as an active way to meet new people, appreciate alternative lifestyles and choices, circulating the city and public spaces while respecting others, coexisting in a friendly way, reaffirming the possibility of living with others and resolving conflicts through dialogue. Tip Get to know the video-campaign against homophobia in Portugal: < http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fjlOeJa75S0 > Conceptual Sheet “Masculine” violence Violence is a complex phenomenon that manifests many ways and has many motivations and factors; it’s more frequent in urban areas, mainly in the peripheries of large cities. In public spaces, young men are the most frequent perpetrators and victims of violence - especially lethal violence - while in private spaces women are disproportionately affected, most commonly through abuse by their intimate partners. According to the “Map of Violence 2010 – The anatomy of homicides in Brazil”, of the 47,707 homicides in 2007, 17,475 victims were young people (15-24 years); and from these young victims, 16,408 (or 93.9%) were males and 11,905 were black. Men also accounted for 93.4% (442,225) of all inmates (473,626) in 2009, according to the Integrated Penitentiary Information System (InfoPen) of the Ministry of Justice. This same report showes that between 1997 and 2007, 41,532 women were victims of homicide in Brazil, the vast majority of cases committed by male intimate partners. How can we understand men’s participation in violent situations? Looking at these situations, one might believe that men are naturally more aggressive than women. However, that is not true. Almost all researchers on violence conclude that the biological aspects have little or no effect on violent male behavior; The roots of this problem are cultural and social. The characteristics that we assign to men were socially constructed throughout history, and are constantly changing. The men we know have been socialized, raised, according to a particular world view: that is why they so often reproduce behaviors, attitudes and discourses that reflect, in large measure, this learning process. What we now call the aggressive attitude is associated with ways of expressing the masculinity that is socially legitimized and demanded by family, by school, by peers or other people and social groups with whom this man has lived. In our society, the status associated with masculinity is still tied to a vision that we traditionally call sexist. It gives the man a leadership and domination role, overvaluing some features such as strength, courage, ability to provide for the home; and in the field of sexuality, the conquest of women, great sexual appetite and potency and heterosexuality as a prerequisite. On the other hand, characteristics of care and expression of emotions are considered “feminine” and therefore distant from the most accepted model of masculinity. This is evident in the daily life of their neighborhood or work as well as in the image that is projected by the media, on TV or in magazines. Knowing that every person, especially in their youth, seek to feel valued in their social environment and often seek the spotlight through any means possible, we can better understand how this form of masculinity comes to be constructed and reaffirmed daily. This notion of “male honor” and the need to demonstrate courage at all times, puts men in situations of risk and can lead to violent resolution of conflicts. But the model of a violent man is not, indeed, the only expression of masculinity. The transformations in gender patterns that have occurred over the past years are obvious. There is a growing number of men taking on household chores, greater responsibilities for their children and care initiatives in general, which are areas traditionally linked to women and femininity. At the same time, we find young people who develop educational and cultural activities that challenge the so-called “macho” models, who assume different behaviors and aesthetics, searching for other ways to feel valued rather than through the display of guns, cars, motorcycles, money, women or physical attributes. An important strategy to enhance alternative forms of masculinity is the White Ribbon Campaign. Launched in Canada 20 years ago, this campaign has been implemented in several countries, with the objective of engaging men to end violence against women. Using a white ribbon as a symbol, the campaign encourages men to act on the problem by means of several actions (distribution of information materials, performances, workshops, events, a pledge etc.) and it also helps articulate the problem of violence against women and mobilization against it across local, national and international networks and with the feminist movement. 3 3 In recent years, there is a growing number of studies and initiatives that seek to better understand the patterns of masculinity and intervene to help men live healthier lives, taking on roles as caregivers and reducing gender inequalities and violence. It is therefore expected that more and more young men solve their conflicts through dialogue rather than force, accepting and valuing diversity and multiplying new forms of masculinities, free from social impositions and more consistent with reality. Tips Check out the website of the White Ribbon Campaign: <http://www.lacobranco.org.br/> Check out the campaign “Reacciona Ecuador”: El machismo es violencia <http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=reacciona+ecuador> Conceptual Sheet Violence against women The use of violence against women is a widely spread phenomena, considering the number of victims in Brazil and around the world. Data from the World Health Organization (WHO, 2005) show that one in every three women in Latin America has already suffered some type of violence. In Brazil, there are estimates that 2 million women are victimized each year, which would result in one case every 24 seconds (PERSEU ABRAMO FOUNDATION, 2010). The situations of violence against women are broadly varied, but we know that in about 70% of the cases the aggressor is the victim’s intimate partner. The majority of such situations happen in their own homes and, many times, the violent relationship is maintained for several years as the woman is not able to put an end to the aggression cycles, which usually have periods of major violence followed by apologies, presents and calm moments. The manifestation of this type of violence is relatively similar throughout social classes; what can vary are the resources that the victims have to deal with the problem, such as the access to health services. Talking about violence against women as a gender problem requires understanding it from a context of power imbalances that also manifest in a couple’s relationship. Violence evidences the man’s need for control and domination and the way male violent behavior is socially legitimized. When the situations of violence are discussed, numerous reasons and questionings are often raised to support the idea that the woman contributed to being victimized, that she provoked the aggression, that her partner “just lost his head” or that the problem is a private matter and, therefore, must be resolved by the couple privately. Although it is more common to speak about physical and sexual violence, there are other types of less visible or known violence. The psychological or moral violence is the one where the woman is systematically disqualified, coerced, forbidden to have an independent social life, resulting in psychological suffering, limited social life, and a blow to her self esteem, among other ramifications. There is patrimonial violence, when the woman is deprived from her belongings, such as documents, personal objects and other property which her subsistence depends upon. Finally, there is the institutional violence, characterized by bad or poor service and treatment provided by professionals from government agencies, including omission or disrespectful attitudes towards victims. One of the major achievements of the feminist movement in Brazil was the 1985 creation of police stations for women and government agencies specialized in assistance to victims, which constituted the first widely impacting public policy to deal with this problem. In 2006 the “Maria da Penha” law was constituted; another milestone in the policies for women. The law establishes measures of prevention, assistance and protection for women and their children, indicates the treatment of the aggressors and prevention sentences from being excessively mild (such as the payment of symbolic monetary penalties), among other significant progress. Confronting this type of violence means guaranteeing access to women’s rights and, fundamentally, the promotion of autonomy, the expansion of cultural repertoire and references to what being a woman is, and strengthening professional life, social and community links. The sooner young women are stimulated to seek and understand new role models, the stronger their capacity foraffective relationships and sucessful life projects. An important mobilization activity for the issue is the “16 Days of Activism for the End of Violence Against Women Campaign”, carried out around the world since 1991. The Campaign seeks to promote human rights and eliminate violence against women, and coalesces on the International Day of Non-Violence Against Women, November 25th. In Brazil, there is a national campaign from the 20th of November (National Day of Black Consciousness), to the 10th of December (Universal Declaration of Human Rights). Events such as the “16 Days” and Women’s International Day can be key moments to encourage discourse about this type of violence, inform women about their rights and stimulate denouncement. 4 4 Tips The following are interesting links about violence against women: <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KuQczIkF9LM> <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8A0PJ6raDF4> <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oa8gAX-ZaZg> <http://www.bemquerermulher.org.br/> <http://www.quebreociclo.com.br/> Conceptual Sheet Women’s Rights In 1948, in response to the grievances caused by the two World Wars, the countries that were part of the United Nations approved the Universal Declaration of Human Rights; a great milestone in the defense of citizenship. The document establishes minimum conditions of life that should be guaranteed by the governments for all citizens, with no distinction. Despite its universal character, so important in that period, it does not cover the existence of huge inequalities in society which weaken certain populations and social groups, creating barriers for the guarantee of rights. The historic evolution of Human Rights originated a new phase – or generation – where the concepts of social and diffused rights were consolidated and promoted through government’s intervention, especially in the form of public policies. They are rights that aim to protect and fortify those in less favorable conditions, creating norms and specific actions directed towards these groups, in addition to indicating new issues of growing importance, such as the right to culture, leisure and sports. Instead of an abstract notion of “men”, the needs of black, indigenous, LGBT people, disabled people, the elderly and also women are starting to be discussed. It is in this context, in the last decades of the 20th century, that concerns for female citizenship emerged as a matter and also as the focus of the feminist movement struggles. In Brazil and around the world, the debate about women’s wellbeing and the social pressure of these movements boosted some important achievements, in the fields of sexual and reproductive health, the work place, politic participation and even violence against women, among many other. The 1988 Constitution embraced many feminist demands, expressed in the “Letter of the Brazilian Women to the Constituents”, which culminated in incorporating fundamental points to the constitutional text, such as the Article (5th, I), which guarantees the equity between men and women in general, or the Article (7th, XX), which foresees the protection of women in the labor market, through specific incentives. Some historic distortions that have been changing little by little: • It wasn’t until 1932 (100 years after Brazilian men) that women gained suffrage, although with limitations of age and economic condition; • more recently, the New Civil Code, approved in 2002, changed the Article that allowed husbands the annulment of a marriage in case it was proved that his wife was not virgin, a device that legitimated the hierarchy of gender and the inferiority of women in civil marriage; • constituted in 2006, the Maria da Penha Law marks progress towards the elimination of violence against the women (see more in the text “Violence Against the Woman”); • in 2009 there was a change in a Criminal Code law which characterized rape as a crime against moral – and not just against the person – making it crime against the sexual dignity, and therefore a higher offence. Nevertheless, changes in Brazilian legislation and government policies are still insufficient to eliminate inequalities that were built for so many years. There are still important gaps and deficiencies, mainly in the implementation of the policies. Brazilian women, specifically black and rural residents, who have progressively assumed the command of their home and cope with a triple shift (working, taking care of the house and raising children), still suffer with outstanding inequalities day-to-day, wether they are difficult access to public spaces, cultural, leisure or sports activities, or salary differences. Some data clearly evidences the unfavorable position of women in our country and throughout the world: 5 5 • Brazilian women receive in average about 34% less than men in the same position (IBGE); • in the labor market, women hold only 13% of the leadership posts (International Labor Organization); • while 51,7% of men claim to perform home chores, 90,6% of women declare the same (PNAD, 2002); • just 9% of the Brazilian Congress are women (2010), though they make up about 51% of the population; • women head 33% of the Brazilian families (IPEA, 2007); • among the people in the world who live below the poverty line, 70% are women (ONU); • 33% of the Brazilian women said they have been victims of some type of violence (PERSEU ABRAMO Foundation, 2001); which means one woman falls victim to violence every 15 seconds. With this, continual mobilization of women is needed to defend and enforce their rights. In this sense, the feminist movement – which has not just transformed over time, but has also diversified itself, gaining many approaches, demands and even perspectives– is still a fundamental reference and ideology to be occupied and strengthened by women. It is also important to consider that many of the spaces and policies for the female participation are usually directed towards older women, with low consideration for the interests and needs of young women. Informal initiatives of youth groups in the fields of culture, education as well as sports have proven an interesting way to bring more young women into the discussion of their rights, mostly in the suburbs where they suffer the consequences of an unequal society more. Incentivizing female participation in the public sphere, promoting youth meetings and congregating in public spaces contribute to building new life projects, improving trust in collective action and breaking old stigmas, therefore opening a path to changes. Tips To know more about this topic, read the document prepared by Unifem, “The Progress of Women in Brazil” (Brasília, 2006), available at: <http://www.mulheresnobrasil.org.br/> Access as well: <http://www.cfemea.org.br/guia/apresentacao.asp> Activities The following activities were applied by the Youth, Gender and Public Space Project team (3rd Edition) and developed between 2009 and 2010 in two institutions that attend to adolescents and youth of São Paulo city: the EMEF Pe. José Pegoraro, in Grajaú; and the Youth Center Helena Portugal Albuquerque, in Jaçanã. Through the project we aimed to experience different ways of promoting critical reflection on the models of gender and their implications for phenomena of violence, expecting to discover how young people would express their point of view about these questions. With considering for the richness of the process and the production of such interesting material by the young men and women who took part in this work, we organized this Guide with the systematization of ten activities. We chose the educative workshops that, after being applied, most stimulated the youths to reflect, debate and produce material about gender issues. An important lesson for the Sou da Paz Institute team was the realization that for the youth to feel stimulated to participate during the workshops, it was important that they do not limit themselves to discussions and reflections on theory, but rather that they propose the development of concrete products, such as a news mural, interactive mural, communitarian news, blog, comic strip, video clip, theater, stencil, etc. Those products demonstrate the knowledge of the student, promote channels of expression, and generate a sense of responsibility in the group, in that the non participation of one member might cause the delay or non execution of the “collective product”. Along these lines, the majority of the workshops proposed here suggest the creation of communication products. We chose products that do not require technical knowledge from the educators and can be made with easily available, low cost material. The workshops do not necessarily have to be applied in the sequence suggested in this guide, they can occur independently. It is important for the educator to be aware and be sensible in identifying which gender-related issues need to be worked on in the group to choose the most adequate activities for the students’ interests. Some activities can be fragmented into more than one session, according to the time available. The suggested workshops can be applied with people from 15 to 29 years old, but it might be more interesting to form groups with closer ages – for instance, a group of 15 to 18, another of 20 to 24 and so on – since the depth of the discussions about gender may vary considerably depending on the moment of life. Lastly, we expect that the activities make sense for the educator and contribute to develop critical thinking about gender issues in our society. Preparing the activities: some recommendations The suggested activities can be executed by any educator, in schools, social projects, or in non governmental organizations. As gender is a complex matter and requires certain reflection and sensibility from the educators, it is necessary that they have some interest in the topic and experience working with young people. Besides feeling comfortable with the content of the workshops, the educator must be concerned with the students’ attitude during the workshop, because this contributes to an environment of participation and respect among learners. It is important that the professional makes sure there is space for women and men to speak, stimulates equal participation, does not let prejudiced and macho speeches go unnoticed, establishes ground rules and does not reinforce gender stereotypes. It is essential to maintain an attitude consistent with the contents being studied. It does not help, for instance, that the educator debates with the students about respect to diversity and then goes on to make prejudiced jokes or comments. We recommend that the activities be executed in mixed/coed groups (men and women), with the participation of 10 to 20 people. The facilitator can be a man or a woman, what matters is the affinity with the theme and his/her commitment. To receive the students, reserve a comfortable space that makes them feel at ease. In case the people in the group still do not know each other, start the first meetings with some icebreakers for introduction and integration. Reserve time to make a pause in the activities, establishing a relaxation moment or if possible, a break for snacks. Lastly, it is important to prepare the workshops in advance, pulling aside the necessary material and reading the handouts. If possible, it is worthwhile taking notes on the sessions, quoting the most interesting discussions, the hottest themes for the group, their points of view and the activities in which the group was most engaged. This help in planning the next activities and having a record of the whole educational process. Activity The models I see Objective To allow the students to reflect on the models valued by society. Estimated duration 2 hours (1 hour to build the model and 1 hour to debate). Material • • • • • Craft paper Diverse magazines and newspapers Glue Scissors Marker pen Activity Description This activity consists of building the “ideal models” of man and woman valued by society, in the opinion of the students. To execute the activity, divide the classroom into four groups and distribute some magazines and newspapers of different types: weekly summary; publications aimed at the male public; celebrity news; publications aimed at the black public; sports periodicals, etc., so the groups have a large variety of images, to be able to choose the model they want to build. Ask each group to draw a body on craft paper – male or female – from the silhouette of a youth in the group. Then ask the groups: in your opinion, what is the most ideal man/ woman according to society? The students must cut out images from the magazines to build a character by pasting the images on their paper body. Two groups must look for images to build the “female model” and the other two the “male model”, trying to answer the questions: • What does he/she look like? • What assets does he/she possess? • What does he/she feel? Closing the discussion Our experience with applying this activity has shown that the models are very similar to the successful characters portrayed in the soap operas; in other words, they are completely different from the youth’s own reality. Electronic equipment such as cell phones and Ipads, muscular bodies, cars and trips to heavenly places appear in almost all the models constructed by the students. Hence, before finalizing the activity, it is important to talk with the youths about how these models’ influence their lives. Hereafter we present some questions that can help guide the discussion. 1 1 • What are the problems you identify in these models? What are the advantages? • What do you most value about yourself? • Is it possible to be different? How is it for you to have to follow a standard? • Why is it so difficult for people to accept alternative expressions of masculinity and femininity? What can we do to change this? • Can you identify prejudice in the ideal man/woman as portrayed by the media ? And by your family and friends? • Why is it important to respect diversity (of behaviors, bodies, preferences, etc.)? Cut and paste: “What is society’s most valued referent for men and women?” t, : ho n me Wo Men: car, m u bea oney , pow up ke- t lica de ls, e , he l, tifu . els ew e, j ma er, m otorc ycle, succe ss, st reng th, w rist-w atch. Legend: Images selected by the students from the Youth Center Helena Portugal Albuquerque, in Jaçanã. Activity Agree and Disagree Dynamic Objective Identificar as percepções dos/as jovens sobre as relações de gênero no cotidiano e, a partir disso, debater com o grupo sobre as questões e pontos de vista mais polêmicos. Estimated duration 50 minutes. Materiais • Paper cards • Flip-chart or blackboard Prepare a atividade This activity must be executed in an ample space so that people in the group can move freely. In case it happens in a classroom, it is important that the desks are put aside, freeing the central space. Prepare yourself to mediate debates: consult the handouts for this Guide in advance. Activity Description Starting with the presentation of some affirmations that demonstrate “common-sense” perceptions about gender relations, the students must position themselves in favor or against what was said. Besides promoting debate, this activity allows the educator to identify what prejudices and sexist perceptions need to be worked on in the group. From this diagnosis, other activities about gender can (and must) be developed to promote more democratic relations between the group. Share with the group the affirmations presented in the boxes below and ask them all to stand up and position themselves in relation to what was said: those in favor to the right of the room; those against to the left; the ones “on the fence” in the middle of the room. Ask the participants to mentally choose their position before moving themselves in the room. Our experience has shown that the youths usually position themselves after their friend’s choice, which can harm the activity dynamic. 2 2 A) Nowadays men are less macho than in the past. B) Nowadays boys are more affectionate than in the past. C) Today’s young people value the most in a girl her being “hot”. D) Today’s girls wish to find a man to marry and are worried about being alone. E) The parents continue controlling their daughters more than their sons. F) It is natural to defame girls that like going out and talking to boys in the street. G) There are things only for boys like football, and things only for girls, like cooking and ballet. H) Currently, young women value themselves less than they did in the past, because they go out and are with many boys. I) Men are more aggressive by nature than women. J) Taking care of the children and the house is a woman’s responsibility. Closing the discussion After this, try to identify what were the two affirmations that caused the most discord in the room. Organize a quick debate about these two issues (one subject at a time) between the side that agrees and the one that disagrees, asking them to defend their positions. Another interesting dynamic is the inverted debate, in which the side that agrees with the phrase must defend the opposite position and vice-versa. This contributes to the student’s conflict with their own convictions and develops the ability to understand the other side of an argument. Hint Provoke the debate by reflecting on some convictions that usually appear, such as: “nowadays women are much easier and still demand us to respect them”; “men are born more violent indeed”; “there is no macho anymore because women already have the same rights as men”; etc. Activity Interactive Mural: all types of people Objective To enlarge the repertoire of students about real males and females, as well as stimulate respect for diversity in educational spaces. Estimated Duration 3 hours (divided in stages/different meetings). Material • Diverse images of men and women from Internet sites, photos, newpapers, magazines, educative material, etc. • Glue • Scissors • Cork or cardboard • White pieces of paper • Pilot marker pen • Double-side tape Activity Description The idea of this activity is to build, together with the students, a panel of images of men and women executing activities that break from the “conventional model” of masculinity and femininity with which other students and employees can interact. Immediately after it’s creation, a discussion about the results of the activity must occur. Its execution consists of three stages: 1st choosing the images with the students; 2nd assembling the panel/ interactive exposition; 3rd discuss the activity results. 1ST STAGE: choosing the images with the students Duration: 1 hour (including the selection of images previously done by the educator). The images of men and women executing “unusual” activities (those that break with the traditional conception of men and women roles) must be exposed in the chosen support – cardboard or cork board. For this, look for images that portray uncommon situations, such as: a man cooking for a woman; a man washing the sidewalk; a woman president; a man taking care of a baby; a police woman; a woman driving a truck; a man playing piano; a man wearing a skirt; female DJ; a woman drawing graffiting; a man cleaning the floor. Present these images to the students and incentivize them to choose at least eight of the most interesting or polemic images. You can help the group by asking the following questions: • What called your attention in this image? • Are you used to seeing men or women doing this? • Why do you think this situation is uncommon? 3 2 2ND STAGE: setting up the mural and interactive exposition Duration: 1 hour (including sticking the double-side tape). Organize the selected images on the card or cork board and think with the students some phrases that stimulate others to reflect about what is being exposed, such as: • What do you think about what you see? Have you ever seen this scene? • There are all kinds of people. Together with the students, copy each one of the adjectives below (according to the number of selected images and people in the institution), cut and stick a piece of double-face tape behind each one of them. BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL INTELLIGENT INTELLIGENT INTERESTING INTERESTING ELEGANT ELEGANT AUDACIOUS AUDACIOUS BRAVE BRAVE STRONG STRONG FUNNY FUNNY SMART SMART STYLISH STYLISH COMPETENT COMPETENT DIFFERENT DIFFERENT MODERN MODERN GRACEFUL GRACEFUL CAREFUL CAREFUL IMPORTANT IMPORTANT AFFECTIONATE AFFECTIONATE AGILE AGILE ACTIVE ACTIVE NICE NICE TALENTED TALENTED Put the adjectives in a small bag which must fixed on the board with the images and with the following instruction: “In the small bag below there are a lot of words. Choose a word that is related to what you see in each image. Then, cut the adhesive tape and stick the word to the side of the image”. After mounting the mural, decide with the students a place with high circulation of people to display the panel for at least one week. Stimulate the students to spread the word to other students and professionals of the institution so that everyone can have the opportunity to interact with the mural. 3 Mural example produced by the Youth, Gender and Public Space Project at the EMEF Padre José Pegoraro, in Grajaú. 3RD STAGE: discussing the activities results Duration: 1 hour Take the panel into the classroom and promote a discussion with the group about the adjectives that were chosen and how/why they are associated with each image. Our experience applying this activity has shown that even when proposing adjectives that represent positive characteristics, some students or professionals from the institutions use them in pejorative ways when associated with the images – for example, at the side of the image of a male ballet dancer the words “funny”, “beautiful” and “graceful” were fixed (the adjectives in Portuguese have gender-specific terminations, in this case the female adjectives were put at the side of the image of the ballet dancer man). The discussion with the students must treat the prejudice that exists in relation to people’s styles, behaviors and attitudes. Why is a male ballet dancer man called (female) “beautiful”? Can’t a man enjoy skating and patchwork at the same time? Can a woman work as a pilot, valet or mechanic? How is she seen by society? Are there situations at school/institutions in which the boys are considered “gay”, or the girls are considered “butch”? From this discussion you can develop other activities that work with the concepts of respect for diversity and the rejection of prejudiced practices (we suggest activity 9 of this toolkit). 2 Prepare yourself for this activity Together with the students, challenge the conventional standards of being a man or woman. To heat up the discussion, we suggest reading the interview with the cartoonist Laerte, at Folha de S. Paulo, on 03 of November of 2010 (http://www1.folha.uol.com.br/ ilustrada/825136-cartunista-laerte-diz-que-sempre-teve-vontade-de-se-vestir-demulher.shtml), as well as reading the comics of Muriel, Laerte’s created character, available at the blog <http://murieltotal.zip.net/>. Activity Creating the scene and inverting the roles Objective To allow the youths to challenge the roles played by men and women in certain situations through the performing dramatic skits with “inverted roles”, I.e., males representing females and females representing males. Estimated duration 1 hour Material • White paper sheets / note cards • Pen Activity Description In this activity the students must elaborate and present scenes from situations that are part of daily life and/or are explored by the media. However, the students must represent the roles of the gender opposite their own. To execute the activity, divide the team into coed groups with at least four members in each group. Then copy the situations described below (one situation per note card) and distribute one card to each group. 1) Jealous boyfriend catches his girlfriend talking to another boy. 2) Man and woman know each other at the subway and fall in love at first sight. 3) Man is watching soccer and, at the same time, his wife wants to watch the last episode of her soap opera. 4) Advertisement where a rejected guy, when using a new deodorant, is assailed by many women. 5) Car advertisement where the man who drives a car calls the attention of many women. 6) TV advertisement where the woman puts lipstick on and goes to a party with her girlfriends. At the party the woman that is using the lipstick is the center of attention from men. 4 4 Ask each group to create a scene about the described situation, reminding them that the men of the group must represent the female roles, and the women the male ones. Determine the time (between 15 and 20 minutes) for the groups to elaborate the scenes and then ask each group to act out the situation. Close the activity with a brief round of conversation about what it was like playing the scenes, aim to bring up some questions. Comment When this activity was executed by Sou da Paz team, it was part of a competition with many other plays that earned points. That encouraged the students to really get involved in the activity, representing a man or woman – without the shame of “being ridiculous”. During the competition, a board with three judges (the teachers) graded according to the group’s representation quality and the dedication in building the scene (dialogues, costumes, etc.). If you think that the group needs motivation to loosen up, you can simulate a competition or use other strategies for the group to get involved in this activity. Questions for discussion • Do these situations happen often? Do you know anyone that has ever gone through any of these situations? And what about you, have you? • What do you think about the role that the man plays in these situations? Why? • What do you think about the role that the woman plays in these situations? Why? • In real life, in a similar situation, would you react the same way as you represented? • What was different for you when interpreting the opposite sex? • The young men: how did you feel in the woman’s role? • The young women: how did you feel in the man’s role? • The young men: do you think the women represented you well? • The young women: do you think the men represented you well? Activity Men and women in the media: questioning references Objective To stimulate critical reflection about the influence that the media exerts on us, mainly regarding gender roles that are strongly disseminated by the communication channels. Estimated duration 2 hours Material • • • • Computer with internet connection Projector Transparencies Pen Activity Description To execute this activity you will need to use a computer connected to the internet, as we suggest the exhibition of video clips and advertisements available on Youtube (www. youtube.com) before facilitating a discussion with the students. These materials were chosen because their language is closer to young people’s environment and some of them bring positive examples, showing to them that it is possible to be and to act differently. We’ve split the activity into three blocks: “songs and video clips”; “advertisements”; and “social campaigns”. For each block, there are recommendations and suggestioned questions for the discussion of the content. It is interesting to work from these three blocks, because aside from using different languages, they permit open the door to many discussions and can broaden the student’s views. Plan between 30 to 40 minutes for each block, including the exhibition of the materials and the discussion with the group. BLOCK 1) Songs and video clips: discussing the power associated to gender A) My humps (By Black Eyed Peas) Available at <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1adwEiGMpQw> B) Firma milionária or Millionaire company (By MC Max) Available at <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wr4VS_ex3eQ&feature=related> Lyric: <http://letras.terra.com.br/mc-max/1660184/> C) Unpretty (By TLC) Available at <http://www.pp2g.tv/vYHB8a3Y_.aspx#> D) Stupid girls (By Pink) Available at <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gl6N_2QUYms&feature=related> 5 5 E) Junto e misturado or Together and mixed (By MV Bill and Kamilla) Available at <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l2bSj0edGic&feature=related> Lyric: <http://letras.terra.com.br/mv-bill/611631/> F) Quase LLara Available at <http://www.myspace.com/llara/music/songs/quase-llara-14633757> These songs and video clips are references to current masculinity and femininity models and are part of the youth’s universe. They can stimulate the student’s critical reflection about these disseminated models. Bring to their attention how the first songs picture the woman as if she is an object of man’s desire, a consumer good. The woman relates with the man as he provides her things that give her status and contribute to her following the standards of sensual women. On the other hand, the last four songs challenge those standards, since the pictured women question the female roles that surround them. Questions to guide the discussion • What do the songs talk about? Try to recover the strongest elements in each of them. • What do the songs have in common? • What are the characteristics of the women pictured in the songs? • What are the characteristics of the men pictured in the songs? • How do men and women relate each other in the songs? • According to the songs what must a man have in order to be valued? And a woman? • Do you think that people are influenced by these video clips? How? • Do you identify with this? Why? • Are those people references for you? Why? • Is it possible to behave in a different manner from thatpictured in the songs? How? Good idea! You can suggest that the students make a satire/parody of the songs and clips, changing the lyrics and/or scenes. This way, they can make a critical reading of the original songs and transmit it in the production. See this satire example of the music My humps, by Alanis Morissette: <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRmYfVCH2UA> BLOCK 2) Advertisements: have and be A) Beverage advertisements <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hEseqtHxOnM&feature=related> <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qGJGEad0sLM> <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6EEmWPCV588> B) Car advertisement <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9mqAK3g3UZQ> C) Sports brand advertisement <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DAM6Z5_O84c> D) Moisturizing advertisement <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N_YD6hhoKn4> E) Publicity campaign about constructing beauty standards <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=29wx0LHszNw> The advertisements associate goods with a style of being that brings visibility and power to whoever acquires them. A way to challenge the previously shown content is by questioning the beauty standards of the advertisements. After all, the pictured women exude the same beauty standards (white, tall, slim body, etc.), while men must transmit the image of being virile, powerful and popular. The products aim to reinforce these behavior models, valuing them and stimulating the consumers to also adhere to this standard. The last indicated advertisement shows how this beauty model we value is “produced”. Questions to guide the discussion • What is the association that the advertisements make between the product being sold and the female picture? And the man? • What is the type of relation established between men and women in these advertisements? • What do you think people are looking for when buying these products? • What empowers women in the advertisements? And men? • What is the beauty standard promoted by the advertisements? • According to the advertisements, what is the ideal woman? And the ideal man? • Are you able to identify a “way of being manly” and a “way of being womanly” similar to the advertisements (same standard in more than one advertisement)? 5 5 BLOCK 3) Social campaigns: using the media to promote the gender equity A) Portugal campaign against homophobia <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fjlOeJa75S0> B) Animation for the gender equity <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TWvJ3Dd2Y9M> C) Portugal campaign against dating violence <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbkKy6SgUdo> D) Campaign to end the violence against women <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oNFRg0bPBdc> E) The White Ribbon Campaign <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=clFseVAFqb8&feature=related> F) Campaign Excuse me, I am a father! (Dá Licença, Eu Sou Pai!) <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NfFSoosWa3I&feature=related> These social campaigns show how the media has potential not just to disseminate negative values and models, but to be a powerful tool to promote other values, stimulating gender equity. Good idea! From these social campaign examples, stimulate the students to produce magazines, videos, mural news, podcasts, radio programs, etc. They are fun and soft ways of working the issue; at the same time, they help young people see communication channels not just as villains, but also as allies in the promotion of gender equity, by showing positive messages. Activity Stencils for gender equity Objective To encourage the expression of ideas and messages about gender relations directed towards young people through the production of stencils (technique using graffiti molds). Estimated duration 1 hour for discussion, 2 hours for making molds and application of the technique. Materials • • • • • • • • Cardboard Ruler Stylus Adhesive tape Spray and/or ink of varied colors Foam roll for paint application Pencil Eraser Description of activity This activity combines an awareness of the group on gender issues and the production of stencils for transmitting messages about gender issues. The stencil is a form of media which arouses great interest in young people and can be created to publicize logos, messages and drawings according to the creativity of the group. A) RAISING AWARENESS OF THE GROUP FOR GENDER ISSUES This activity is important for young people to be able to create the messages and designs that will be disseminated through the stencils. Awareness can be accomplished in several ways, from music, texts, news, videos, campaigns, etc. You can also use other activities suggested by other sheets in this material. We suggest the awareness activity below. > Being a man and a woman: a construction Watch the movie “Wake up, Raimundo, Wake up!” (Acorda Raimundo ... Acorda!). Then ask the students: what is good about being a boy or a girl? Then ask: What’s bad about being a boy or girl? Write down the answers as the activity goes on. Then ask the class to identify things they wish to change in the relationship between men and women and what messages they would like to transmit to people in order to contribute to the deconstruction of “gender inequality”. The video shown is also available on Youtube. Part I: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r6zFfnQ8M0M Part II: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBEnPg-JB7o&feature=related 6 6 A report on application of this activity When the team from Sou da Paz implemented this activity with the students and the participants of the group “Fala aí” at EMEF Padre José Pegoraro school, in Grajaú the following was reported: “The bad thing about being a woman is that we can get pregnant” and “men always have to take the initiative in everything, especially when approaching the girls”.“There are things that aren’t appropriate for women to do. Men can do more things”. From this conversation, helping the group identify prejudices and ask questions about the most accepted standards, the students agreed on some messages they would like to advertise. Here’s what they produced: 1 - A smart man is a present father (man holding the hand of his son or daughter) 2 - Women with attitude – a woman giving a bouquet of flowers to a man (reversing the logic of approach). 3 - Be what you want and not what others think you should be (man cooking and woman playing football). B) TECHNICAL GUIDELINES: HOW TO MAKE A STENCIL The stencil is a cutout mold. To produce it, it is necessary to define which messages or images will be communicated. Then, have the youth draw the letters and/or drawing on a hard surface such as cardboard or a poster board (the more resistant the material, the more durable the mold will be). To facilitate the activity, we provide stencil fonts at the end of this activity. Tip • Instead of drawing on the surface, you can paste an image that is ready (and stencil). • The letters, drawings and writings should be outlines, so that once cut, the ink can be applied to the stencil over a wall and thus form the desired image on the wall. • The mold should be thought of as a “negative” of the original image. • “Bridges” should be created to connect the loose parts of the image to the rest of mold so that the figure can be formed when applied. The next step is to cutout the parts to be displayed so that the ink can be applied and the image formed. For this, use a stylus and outline the image. Do this on a surface that itself can be scratched by the stylus (a piece of plywood will protect many surfaces). Your pattern is ready! Hold it on the wall and apply the spray or paint. Make stencils in appropriate locations, such the walls of the institutions where you have permission or other authorized sites. The end result is amazing! 6 6 Tip See more explanation about this technique: http://www.podesta.com.br/estencil/pensando_estencil.pdf See also photos of the implementation of this activity in Helena Portugal Albuquerque Youth Centre, Jaçanã. ABCD EFGH IJLM NOPQ RSTU >>> Exemplo de letra para stencil 6 6 XWYZ 01234 56789 ?!%*@ “&%+- Activity Machismo and Violence Objective Promoting reflection on how the construction of young men’s identities and practices are influenced by macho models of behavior – disseminated by friends, community, family and the media - which can also lead them to assume violent attitudes. Estimated time 2 hours Materials • • • • • • Computer with Internet access / Datashow • White pieces of paper • Pen • Flip-chart • Markers Activity description This activity is divided in three parts: First, we propose that the students reflect on the concept of machismo and its associated the values and attitudes; Then, facilitate them make an association between masculinity and violence and how machismo contributes to strengthening that relationship; Finally, the group will discuss how one learns to be machista and value violence and will finish by reflecting on the different ways of teaching how not to be either. FIRST PART: Identifying machista behaviors Ask the group to organize themselves into sub-groups of four to five members. Distribute one of the cards below to each sub-group. Each card has a description of some male and female characters; ask them to read the assigned card and to discuss among themselves which machista characteristic they identified in the characters. The sub-groups must establish explanations for their reasoning. Ask them to write down the characteristics and the reasons. Characters descriptions: 7 7 Eduardo, 17 years-old He lives with his mother, a sister and a younger brother. He quit school a year ago, when he was still in high school. He quite likes to play football and to listen to funk music. Handsome, strong and communicative, he gets lots of attention form girls, especially since he started acting as an MC in the neighborhood’s parties. He recently started working as an attendant in an electronics store. He says he is a calm guy as long as nobody messes with him. He only lost control once when he had to beat up a guy who called his girlfriend “hot” at a party. Sophia, 35 years-old She is married and has a 4-year old girl and a 5-month old boy. She insists on having a job in order to have her own money, but she opted to work part-time so that she could have more time with her kids. She sometimes feels worn-out for having to work, take care of the house, the kids and her husband. She is responsible for cooking everyday and doesn’t like to let the husband bathe or dress the kids. She thinks that men are not skilled enough to do that and that women are naturally more talented for those kinds of things. Lucas, 21 years-old He lives with his mother and father (his older sister got married and left home). After he finished high school, he went to technical school and now works at a company. He has a 4-year old boy with a high school girlfriend with whom he has very little contact. He also has a one-year old daughter who he visits once in a while. He uses part of his salary to pay child support to both of his children’s mothers. He is sometimes late with his payments and once, one of the mothers went to his home to complain about it. He held the woman up by the arms and, screaming, told her that she should be thankful for getting his help at all because he was really fed-up with her. His father saw the scene and did nothing. Darlene 18 years-old She lives with her mother and a sister. She prefers to date older kids, who can afford to take her out (preferably on a motorcycle) and pay for everything. She thinks that men carrying weapons are really attractive, because it gives her the sensation that she is with a powerful man. Carlos, 13 years-old He lives with his father, mother, a brother and two sisters. Carlo’s grades at school have been dropping and since he started in 7th grade, he has started becoming more unruly. He hangs out with a group that is known for being confrontational with the teachers and school workers and has just been suspended for having put an explosive device in the bathroom during classes. In spite of that, he is used to assuming responsibilities at home and takes care of his younger siblings every time his parents need him to. His father is pretty strict and is suspected to beat his kids and wife. Rogério, 52 years-old He works at a street stand near where he lives. He is already a grand-father of two children from his oldest son. He lives with his wife, who he has already been separated from after a crisis period (she found out that he had a lover). He tells his wife everyday that he loves her; He is very jealous and does not like much that she goes out, uses make up or wears clothes that make her stand out. He organizes the football matches on the weekend, where he drinks with his friends, but he does not allow his wife to watch the games – she stays home preparing dinner. Now, ask each sub-group to present its character and the discussion that took place. You should write down the characteristics that led them to believe that the assigned character is machista or not. Conduct a discussion on what machismo is and which ideals are machista. The following questions can help: • What is machismo? • Which values are disseminated by machismo? • Which are machista ideas? • Is there such a thing as a machista woman? • Do you think that a woman can raise her boy being machista? How? • Are all men machista or are there some that think differently? Give an example. • Are your family’s and the media’s role models machista? How? SECOND PART: Machismo and violence This is a short activity. After the group discussion, ask the sub-groups to get together again and analyze once again if there are violent incidents among the characters. Each group must report what the situation is, who are the authors, the victims and how that situation manifests (is it Physical? Psychological? Verbal?). Finally, they must answer the question: do you think that machismo stimulates violence? How? Each sub-group shall present their conclusions and you can carry a quick debate about the relationship between machismo and violence, seeking to discuss the supposed natural relation between masculinity and violence (are all men inherently violent?). THIRD PART: Where does machismo come from and how can we teach people not to adopt machista behaviors? We suggest the exhibition of four videos (or parts of them) that allow you to explore the fact that machismo is always socially constructed and legitimized: it is learned at home, in the family, at school, through the media… > Video “Children see, children do” NAPCAN NGO campaign This campaign raises awareness about the fact that children are influenced by the adult references that surround them. It makes us reflect on how our behavior can contribute to perpetuate violent attitudes. Link to the video: <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j9hVuZlwKsI&feature=fvst>. > Video “Violence generates violence” from Promundo Institute This cartoon shows us various types of violence (verbal, physical and psychological) that a child can suffer form his/her family and how that can influence him/her to adopt violent behaviors. Link to the video: <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CBq95njazEE>. > Video “It’s not easy!” from Promundo Institute This video shows the results of research carried out by Promundo and Noos Institutes with men from Rio de Janeiro. The study shows that violence against women is cultural and is related to the way men are socialized, and the way they learn to behave. Link to the video: <http://www.promundo.org.br/audiovisuais/para-jovens-e-adultos/ dvd-nao-e-facil-nao/>. 7 7 > Video Campaign “React Ecuador, machismo is violence” This video shows that machismo is an ill that is learned and that it is stimulated from childhood through the way men and women are educated. Link to the video: <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NTxUWQ2IE6s>. > Video “Boss Life” by Snoop Dogg. This music video explores the life of someone who has a “boss life”: a man who has power, status, who dominates women. It is a good example of how the media exploits and disseminates the idea that a real man is one that has several submissive women (which is totally machista!). Link to the video: <http://www.youtube. com/watch?v=f-dUtpHpWzI&p=746C34044C23B6C7&playnext=1&index=92> After showing these videos, ask the students if they can see a relationship among them. It is important that the students understand how families influence the way men are socialized and, therefore, can contribute to the manifestation of machismo. TIP: At the end of the activity, the group can reflect on the following: since machismo is learned and violence is many times stimulated, how can we teach people not to be that way? The group can think of some communication product that divulges those messages. There are activities that discuss gender through the elaboration of media products with students in this guide. We suggest activities 6 and 10. Activity Changing the course of history: other ways of solving conflicts Objective To promote reflection on alternative conflict resolution strategies (based on dialogue and on respect for differences), through theatrical sketches performed by the students and based on conflict and gender prejudice situations. Estimated Time 1 hour (for each group of 4 to 6 people) Materials • White pieces of paper • Pen Activity Description Divide the group into smaller groups (4 to 6 people) and distribute one of the following situations to each group Tip: If you want, you can also create situations together with the students instead of using the scenarios below. If so, plan for a longer time for this activity. A) AT THE BAR Situation: Two young men play snooker at the bar. One of them gets annoyed because he is losing the game, so picks a fight with the other. The owner of the bar questions whether or not to call the police to solve the situation. Neighbors also get involved in the fight. Perform this situation. Characters: Young man 1, young man 2, neighbors, police officer and bar owner. B) AT SCHOOL Situation: The mother of a student goes to school to tell the principal that she saw one of the male teachers holding hands with another man in the street. The mother claims that that can negatively influence her son’s education, given that her son could want to become homosexual. The student’s father agrees with the mother in this situation. Act out the conversation between the parents and the principal. Characters: Mather, father, teacher and school’s principal. C) IN THE STREET Situation: A girls is walking on the street and she hears a man “catcalling” her. Her boyfriend is a few steps back and immediately goes to confront the man. There is another couple accompanying the first couple. How does this scene go? Characters: Girl, boyfriend, harassing man, 2 friends (the other couple). 8 8 D) AT HOME Situation: There is a calm alley, it is night and there are three houses in the alley. Neighbors wake up late that night, scared because they hear a woman screaming in one of the houses. Lights in the nearby houses go on and the neighbors go out into the street. The screaming and the noise go on. One of the neighbors wants to go into the house and beat up the man and another neighbor says that “nobody should get in the middle of a man and his wife’s problems”. What to do now? Characters: Woman, the woman’s husband, neighbor 1, neighbor 2. E) AT THE PARK Situation: There is a young girl who wants to play soccer with her girlfriends in the field in front of her house, but her mother tells her that being out in the streets is a men’s thing because a girl’s reputation can be at stake in the neighborhood. The girl’s boyfriend is also against it because he thinks that a woman that plays soccer becomes “too masculine”. In spite of not encouraging the girl to practice the sport, they don’t forbid her to train either. The girl loves soccer but she is afraid of disappointing her mother and of her boyfriend not liking her anymore. What should she do? Characters: girl, her mother, boyfriend, girlfriend player 1, girlfriend player 2. Personagens: Garota, namorado, jovem que passa a cantada, amiga e amigo (o outro casal). Right after reading the skits, ask each group to work on and present a skit about a given situation, which should last no more than five minutes and should include all of the stated characters. It must be emphasized that the skits will all be “frozen” at the height of the conflicts, meaning that it will end without a final closing scene, since it will be the entire public’s job (or other group’s) to create the ending. You must ask the kind of questions that influence the groups think about endings based on dialogue and mutual respect. Those questions could be: What is each character feeling or thinking? How is a conflict like that usually solved? Is it OK that the conflict is solved that way or could it be solved another way? Does anybody have any question to ask the character/s? Is it possible to have a dialogue in this case? Whose initiative should it be? Can anyone in this scene be the mediator? Remind the students that it is possible to think about other solutions for the scene, taking into account the type of characters that there are in the scene. Note, for example, that in most situations there is a more neutral character, meaning that s/he is not directly involved in it (such as a friend or the bar owner). Those characters can become allies of another character or take on the role of the conflict’s mediators. Question any ending that contemplates violence or discriminating arguments. Below we suggest some more questions that can be asked to influence the students’ reflection on each of the situations and how they can have different endings. A) AT THE BAR • What made the man want to fight with the other man? • Do you think that fighting with anyone is a legitimate way of earning other people’s respect? • In that situation, what can the police do? Are they really necessary or is there any other person that can mediate the situation? How? • How should the police officer act in this situation? • How should the neighbors intervene in this type of situations? And how about the man that was going to be beaten up, how should he react: beat the other man up first or try to talk? B) AT SCHOOL • Why do you think that the mother is worried? • Do you think that the mother is biased? • Do you think that a gay/lesbian teacher influences the students to become gay or lesbian too? • What should the principal do in this case? • When noticing the mother’s prejudgment, how should the teacher react? • What was the father’s position in this story? Did he agree with the mother’s opinion? C) IN THE STREET • • • • Is the man who “catcalled” the girl shameless? Why does he catcalls the girls in the street? Do you think it is OK for the boyfriend to confront the “catcalling” man? Do you think that the boyfriend confronted the other man because of love, jealousy or because he thinks that he owns the girl? • What did the couple of friends think about the situation? How did they position themselves in this story? D) AT HOME • Do you think that the neighbor should interfere? • Do you agree with the saying “nobody should get in the middle of a man and his wife’s problems”? • Do you think that the wife may have done something wrong that made her deserve the beating? • How would you solve this case? • Would you talk to the wife? If so, what would you recommend her? What should she look for first: the hospital, the social welfare agent or the police station for women? • Would you talk to the husband? If so, what would you recommend to him? • Would you ask for somebody’s help in this case? Whose? E) AT THE PARK • Do you think that the mother is just doing that to protect her child? • What does the mother want to protect her daughter from exactly? • Do you agree with the girl’s boyfriend when he says that football makes a woman too masculine? • Do you think it is important that the girl respect her own wishes even if it disappoints her family? • How can they solve this situation without hurting the family? 8 8 Activity in school EMEF Padre José Pegoraro, at Grajaú. Activity What’s up with that? Making a “zine” for the respect of diversity Objective To construct, together with the students, a “zine” (an alternative newspaper, very popular with young people) about “respect of diversity”. Estimated time 5 hours (this activity can be fragmented into a few sessions). Material • • • • • • • • • • White pieces of paper Varied magazines and newspapers Photographic camera A computer with internet access A printer and a photocopier Tape recorder Pen Glue Scissors DVD and TV set Activity’s description This activity consists of the production of a “zine” by the students on their own. Here we suggest some sections that the “zine” should have, as well as some activities for each of them, bearing in mind that the objective is to contribute to the students’ work with the respect to the issue of diversity. Tip Instead of making a “zine” you can construct a blog with the students. In this media there is the possibility of stimulating the youth to continue producing and updating the content of the blog. Such a blog can consist of the same production and reflections suggested for the “zine”. It is recommended that the zine’s production happens after the group had completed other gender-oriented activities, that way, they will be sensitized to the topic. After a lot of reflection, they would have noticed the importance of respect for diversity, but it is worth it to re-visit the issue with the group by doing the “the game of the opposites”. It is important to do this activity in a big space, since people will standup “for” or “against” a question. Keep the activity brief by asking 10 questions at the most. 9 9 Attention! You can ask random questions, since the aim of the activity is not to work on gender topics but to make everyone aware of the differences in their ideas and that there is no one that is the same as another. Here we suggest some questions that can be presented to the group: • Who has a boyfriend or girlfriend? • Who kisses well? • Who goes to church every week? • Who has a gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgendered friend? • Who thinks that violence is justifiable in some occasions? • Who has already beaten up somebody smaller than you? And somebody bigger? • Who already had the urge to beat up somebody but didn’t? • Who thinks that school is “a drag”? • Who thinks that it is the woman’s responsibility to take measures not to get pregnant? • Who thinks that the woman should remain a virgin till marriage? • Who thinks that there are professions that involve physical risk or strength and that is why they must only be done by men? • Who thinks s/he should get involved in order to defend his/her sister or girlfriend? • Who thinks that if a person touches a girl in the dancing club, her boyfriend should beat up the guy? • Do you think it is important to dress well? • Who already discriminated against somebody who was not “well dressed”? • Who wants a motorcycle? • Who is used to doing household chores? • Who thinks s/he is beautiful or handsome? • Who watches TV everyday? Closing up the activity After that, talk to the students about the fact that we all have our own opinions and that they can be the same or different from other people’s. It is essential to note that we are all in constant reconstruction, and that our opinions change over time. Once this sensitization is done, divide the group into smaller groups in charge of each section of the magazine, according to each person’s abilities and interests. We suggest the following sections: a) Interview; b) Survey; c) Pictures; d) Collage; e) Point of view. You can create and increment the sections together with the students’ help, such as: poetry, stories, chronics, cartoons, articles, etc. Try to identify the strong points of the participants and decide together on the content. Attention! The idea is to have the groups work simultaneously. You must allow adequate working time according to the number of hours/sessions available for this activity. The fanzine can be made in an entire afternoon’s session or it can be fragmented in a few sessions. 9 Now, we will introduce the activities thought out for each section. A) INTERVIEW In this section, the students can interview people from their institution, school or their neighborhood, people who are willing to talk about relationships, family, sexuality, etc. The most interesting interviews and answers should be published. In order to do this section, the group must define some questions (we suggest an average of five questions in addition to the basic ones such as name, age, marital status and profession). The idea is that the questions reveal the way people relate to people who are different from them. Here we suggest some questions that can help create the questions with the students: • Who do you think is the most different person from you? Why? • How do you relate to people who are different from you? • What is a “normal person” for you? • Do you think you are normal? • Is it important for you to belong to a group or “tribe”? Do you belong to any? If so, do people in that tribe have similar interests? • Is there any kind of people that you find weird? • Is there any kind of person that you would never be friends with? Why? • Have you ever been a victim of discrimination? How? • Why do you think that people “make fun” of one another? • Have you ever been made fun of? Why do you think that happened? After that, ask the group to make a table (such as this one in the example), which will show all answers. Name Age Marital Status Profession Question 1 Question 2 Question 3 Question 4 Question 5 For the final version of the job, ask the students to choose the most interesting interviews and to present them in a comparative way. Instruct the students to ask for written authorization to take pictures of the interviewees. Also, recommend that they put the pictures next to the person’s answers, just as it is done in the magazines and news papers. Attention! Although you should listen and respect different opinions during the interviews, question judgmental, discriminatory statements. Talk to the students about what was said in the interviews. 9 B) SURVEY In this section, the students can create a question and collect the answers of people from their institutions, school or neighborhood. They can ask people personally or have a voting session using paper votes. At the end, they should create a graphic that reflects the collected answers. In the “zine”, the question can be exposed together with a graphic with the percentages of each answer. See the example on the side, made by Padre José Pegoraro School located in the area of Grajaú, São Paulo. Considering the topic of gender and sexual orientation diversity, instruct the students to make a question and the alternatives for the answers, as we suggest in the following examples: Would you have a homosexual friend? Yes ( ) No ( ) What do you think about a guy that uses a pink shirt? ( ) Handsome ( ) Interesting ( ) Weird ( ) He is gay for sure Tip Another suggestion is making a test, such as the ones in teen magazines. The group can make a test with the question: “Are you biased?” for example. In this case, the students should suggest some question with the answers options. Five or four options are generally presented for the answers. See an example of the test in page 8 of “Ponto G zine”, available for download in: <http://www.soudapaz.org/Portals/0/Downloads/zine_pontoG.pdf>. C) PICTURES In this section they can publish pictures of men and women in uncommon situations with subtitles that analyze the image. Ask the students to take pictures of men and women doing things that are considered “uncommon” by the group, such as woman driving a bus, a woman flying a kite, a woman driving a motorcycle, a man dancing, a boy playing with a doll, etc. Right after, they should all choose the best pictures and create the subtitles that analyze the image such as the example done at Helena Portugal Albuquerque Youth Center in Jaçanã, São Paulo. D) COLLAGE In this section, you can use images and news about the topic “gender and sexual orientation discrimination” selected by the students, as well as other images (words and pictures) that are related to the gender and sexual orientation issue. Distribute some magazines and newspapers. If you can, also provide a computer with internet access so that the students can search for articles on the internet. Ask the group to select images and news. The idea is for the students to be able to relate the discussions going on in the classroom to the news that surround them such as the polemic cases of Geyse Arruda from Uniban (A college student who had to be guarded out of school by the police because she was being physically and psychologically threatened by an angry mob because of her short pink dress), Bruno, the Flamengo football team goalkeeper (who is in jail after the disappearance of a pregnant lover who was a prostitute) , the cartoon artist Laerte (who is a bisexual cross-dresser), among other cases and situations of discrimination against women and LGBT people. See the work of José Pegoraro School on this matter: E) POINT OF VIEW In this section, starting with polemic news on the issue of gender and sexual orientation diversity, the students can produce their texts exposing their opinions about the facts in the selected news. Ask them to choose news recently published on the topic of “respect for gender and sexual orientation diversity” and, after that, propose that the group produces texts and drawings. Bring references of news and current editorials that can serve as a base for the group to elaborate their own texts. Next, the group will have to choose interesting snippets of each text and collect the opinions, so that they complement each other. When finishing the production, ask the students to include a summary of the news or facts and the different points of view in the group. The group can also write a collective text based on the discussions done on the selected news. 9 9 It is time to finish up the material! All the produced contents should be put together and diagramed for the compilation of the “zine”, which can be done in a rudimentary way using collages and clippings or with a simple computer program (in case you decide on the latter, make sure you can count on some one that already knows how to work with those programs). Below we introduce you to the paper orientation of the texts to produce a rudimentary “zine”. > STEP BY STEP STEP 1 Folds Fold an A3 paper sheet in four parts, following the picture on the right. A3 STEP 2 Numbering the sheets Put a number on each rectangle, considering the front and back of each sheet. In total the “zine” should have eight numbered pages. STEP 3 Content distribution After that, select and distribute the produced content on the zine’s pages. We suggest: Page 4 > The zine’s cover Give a name to the newspaper and highlight it on the cover page. Also select the pictures that are part of the cover and first page. Put the list of the sections that make up the “zine”. Remember that the cover must look cool, since it is that part that catches or not the attention of the potential readers. Pages 1 and 2 > Interviews and Survey Choose the best interviews and answers and print them in a summarized way next to the interviewees’ pictures (only if they signed the authorization for the use of their image). Put on the right side at the end of page 2 the graphic originated from the survey. Pages 5 and 6 > Photographs and subtitles Ask the group to choose 4 or 5 pictures. Print them in a reduced size and organize them so that they fit half an A3 page (top side of the sheet). Do not forget that the subtitles should accompany the pictures! Under each of them, the name of the student that took it should be written. Pages 7 and 8 > Collage Select and make a composition with the chosen images. The space cannot exceed half a page, or two rectangles of the “zine”. Page 3 > Point of view This is the zine’s conclusion. It should end with a story, a reflection about a fact or with a poem. If possible, also put in this rectangle the names of the people that took part in this project. STEP 4 Visual production of the “zine” After distributing the contents, the phase of “special touches” starts. Use illustrations, stickers, felt-tip pens, and everything else that you have to leave your “zine” with that special look. You can write some of the contents in it by hand, but for the diagramming to be better write the texts in a text processor (like Word), print them, cut them and glue them to the sheet. Stickers + hand writing Manual clipping + Printed picture Hand writing clipped printed text hand-made drawing clipped printed text + hand-made coloring 9 9 STEP 5 Finishing and reproduction Your “zine” is ready! Do a careful final revision to the contents (doubled attention to possible spelling mistakes) and print copies (front and back) of the material. After, fold the “zines” and distribute them to everyone. The activity will be a success! Nonon Nonono non nonon, ono non nonon! To inspire! See this “zine” produced by the students at José Pegoraro School in Grajaú, São Paulo. It was constructed with the drawings and collages of the students themselves: <http://www.soudapaz.org/Portals/0/Downloads/Fala%20A%C3%AD%20-%20Futebol.pdf>. Activity Photo-novela about teen pregnancy Objective To provoke reflection on teen pregnancy through the elaboration of a photo-novela about the challenges that boys and girls confront when they become parents. Estimated time 3 hours (this can be done in two sessions) Materials • • • • • • • TV set DVD player & DVD Digital camera Printer White sheets of paper Felt-tip pens Brown paper Activity Description Start the activity by showing videos about the teen pregnancy issue. We recommend two productions that explore interesting aspects on this matter: A) Girls (Meninas), by the director Sandra Werneck, 2005. It is a documentary that shows the daily life of three pregnant girls over a year. B) With the word the young father! (Com a voz o jevem pai!), from the series Cavalo Marinho, produced by the Institute Papai. It is an episode that shows how some young fathers are living their paternity. For the activity no to be too long, you can select some parts that focus on the issue of paternity and maternity during the teenage years. Choose parts that deal with the presence or absence of the partner in the caring of the baby, for example. After showing the films, stimulate a discussion about what the group watched. Below, we present some of the topics that can be discussed: • Teen pregnancy is not a “problem” and it does not always happen in an accidental way, after all, it can be a conscious and wished for decision by the couple. No matter what, conceiving a child is a decision that involves many responsibilities and should be shared by a couple (the opinion of only one person should not prevail). • D econstruct the idea that women are more responsible for the affection and the emotional side, whereas fathers are more responsible for the financial and economic side in the children’s rearing. Those conceptions contribute to perpetuate the inequalities between men and women. 10 10 • N ot all fathers are absent or irresponsible. Many wish to participate actively in the raising of their children. • C aring must be seen as an ability you can learn during your lifetime and not a characteristic that is part of the “feminine nature”. Men can also be caring. After discussing those points with the students, divide the group in smaller ones with at least 5 people in each group and ask them to create stories about teen maternity and paternity. They can explore, for example, some situations that moms and dads face when they are responsible for the care of a baby, such as changing diapers, taking the baby for a stroll, give them the bottle, teaching them to walk. Ask the students to use references from the films they watched to elaborate their stories. The stories will be the base for the elaboration of the photo-novelas. Therefore, the groups must think about the characters, the dialogues and the scenes. They should make an outline of the story on a piece of paper, trying to create the scenes and writing down the dialogues and the disposition of the characters. To make it easier, ask the groups to divide the story in parts, like a cartoon. The story should be told in no more than fifteen pictures, so it is not too long. After that, read the stories and give advice on how to adjust the produced content, such as a spell-check. Right after, ask the students to reproduce the imagined scene in a picture. The characters in the stories should be performed by the students themselves and the scenario should only use what is available at the institution or school. When all the pictures are finished, you must print them and give them to the students so that they design the text boxes containing the dialogues and thoughts of the characters. They can either type or hand-write the texts. Finally, the group should organize the pictures in the right sequence, create a title or name for the story and fixate them on a poster paper or wall. Tip You can use the photo-novela as a communication support to talk about other issues. The end result is very interesting and the students usually enjoy the activity very much. See the following example of a photo-novela produced by the students at Helena Portugal Albuquerque Youth Center. The instructor in charge of this activity was Fernanda de Oliveira. 10 Hi, how’s it going? Look at that doll. Cool !!! Débora santos and Wellington Sebastião What’s up? I’m Danilo. And you? Wow!!! That hottie is looking at you! in: I, him and Love. special guests Leticia Silva and Matheus Correia Hi! I’m Rafaela. What am I going to do? I’m pregnant! Look, that guy’s got attitude. He scored! Hehehehehe Dear, I don’t know what to do, I don’t have a job!!! I can’t believe it. Am I going to have a child? It’s not easy, princess, but I’m with you. Yeah. We’re gonna have a baby. I’m so nervous... Well, he and I did this, now we’ll go till the end. End. Complementary References Recommended sites • Instituto Sou da Paz (www.soudapaz.org) • Unifem (www.unifem.org.br) • Secretaria Especial de Políticas das Mulheres (www.sepm.gov.br) • Conselho Estadual da Condição Feminina de SP (www.condicaofeminina.sp.gov.br) • Coordenadoria da Mulher da cidade de São Paulo (http://www.prefeitura.sp.gov.br/ cidade/secretarias/participacao_parceria/coordenadorias/mulher/) • Marcha Mundial de Mulheres (www.sof.org.br/marcha) • União Brasileira de Mulheres (www.ubmulheres.org.br) • Coordenação de Políticas para a Diversidade Sexual do Estado de São Paulo – Secretaria da Justiça e da Defesa da Cidadania (www.justica.sp.gov.br) • Secretaria da Identidade e Diversidade – Ministério da Cultura (www.cultura.gov.br) • Laço Branco (www.lacobranco.org.br) • Promundo (www.promundo.org.br) • Instituto Papai (www.papai.org.br) • Patrícia Galvão (www.agenciapatriciagalvao.org.br) • Ecos (www.ecos.org.br) • Cipó (www.cipo.org.br) • Hip Hop Mulher (http://hiphopmulher.ning.com) • Quebre o ciclo pelo Fim da Violência contra a Mulher (www.quebreociclo.com.br) • Defensoria Pública do Estado de São Paulo (www.defensoria.sp.gov.br) • Pró-Mulher (www.promulher.org) • Coletivo Feminista (http://coletivofeminista.blogspot.com) • União de Mulheres (www.uniaodemulheres.org.br) • Fala Preta (www.falapreta.org.br) • Geledés (www.geledes.org.br) • Universidade Livre Feminista (www.feminismo.org.br) • Campanha dos 16 dias de ativismo pelo fim da violência contra as mulheres (www.campanha16dias.org.br) • Fundação Perseu Abramo (www.fpabramo.org.br) • Instituto Avon (www.institutoavon.org.br) • Cfemea (www.cfemea.org.br) Complementary References Audio-visual material • Deixa que eu chuto (documentário da GNT), de Alfredo Alves, 2009. • Vida Maria, de Márcio Ramos, 2004. Available at: <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bXZr-4m-3sY. • Má educação, de Pedro Almodóvar, 2004. • Milk, de Gus Van Sant, 2008. • Colcha de retalhos (How to make an american quilt), de Jocelyn Moorhouse, 1995. • Pro dia nascer feliz, de João Jardim, 2006. • Meninas, de Sandra Werneck, 2006. • Mulheres perfeitas (Stepford wives), de Frank Oz, 2004. • As horas, de Stephen Daldry, 2002. • Confissões de adolescente (seriado), de Daniel Filho, 1994. • Antonia, de Tata Amaral, 2004. • Cidade dos homens, de Paulo Morelli, 2007. • Transamérica, de Duncan Tucker, 2005. • Nem gravata nem honra, de Marcelo Masagão, 2002. • Minha vida em cor de rosa, Alain Berliner, 1997. Educational Videos • Fale sem medo: não à violência doméstica, do Instituto Avon. • X- Salada pão com ovo, ECOS – Comunicação em Sexualidade. • Minha vida de João, Instituto Promundo. • Pulando o muro, de Reginaldo Bianco, 2009. • Medo de que? Instituto Promundo. • Vídeos do Programa Café Filosófico (CPFL Cultura) sobre relações de gênero, com Contardo Calligaris, Maria Rita Kehl, Sérgio Carrara, Anna Verônica Mautner, entre ouros. Available at: <http://www.cpflcultura.com.br/site/category/serie/crise-do-machoa-crise-atual-e-uma-crise-da-forma-masculina-de-relacionamento-com-o-mundo/>. Complementary References Educational manuals ARRUDA, Silvani; UNBEHAUM, Sandra. Mulheres e cidadania ativa: construindo políticas de igualdade. Guia de Formação de Gestores e Gestoras. São Paulo: Fundação Carlos Chagas, 2005. _________. Mulheres e cidadania ativa: construindo políticas de igualdade. Guia de Formação de Mulheres. São Paulo: Fundação Carlos Chagas, 2005. ECOS; Comunicação em Sexualidade (vários autores). Caderno da hora. Masculinidade e violência: o que gênero tem a ver com isso? Violência de gênero: o que pensam os nossos jovens? São Paulo: ECOS, 2005. ECOS; INSTITUTO PAPAI; WORLD EDUCATION. Trabalhando com mulheres jovens: empoderamento, cidadania e saúde. Manual M. Rio de Janeiro: Promundo, 2008. Disponível em: <http://www.promundo.org.br/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/trabalhando-com-mulheres-jovens.pdf>. INSTITUTO PROMUNDO. Da violência para a convivência. Manual H. Volume 2, 2011 (Série Trabalhando com Homens Jovens). Disponível em: <http://www.promundo.org.br/wpcontent/uploads/2010/04/SexualidadeeSaudeRep.pdf>. MACHADO, Zaira. Almanaque da mulher: a incrível jornada. Brasília: Secretaria Nacional da Mulher Trabalhadora (SNMT), 2009. MEDRADO, Benedito (Org.). Homens pelo fim da violência contra a mulher: manual educação para a ação. Recife: Instituto Papai, Promundo, White Ribbon Campaign, 2007. RIBAS, Margot. Educando para a paz na diversidade sexual e igualdade de gênero. São Paulo: União de Mulheres de São Paulo, 2008. SILVEIRA, Maria Lúcia da; GODINHO, Tatau (Orgs.). Educar para a igualdade: gênero e educação escolar. São Paulo: Coordenadoria Especial da Mulher, Secretaria Municipal de Educação, 2004. Other texts that deal with the issues in this Guide ABRAMO, Helena. Juventude e adolescência no Brasil: referências conceituais. São Paulo: Ação Educativa, 2005. ABRAMOVAY, Miriam. Gangues, galeras, chegados e rappers: juventude, violência e cidadania nas cidades da periferia de Brasília. Brasília: Unesco, 1999. BOURDIEU, Pierre. A dominação masculina. Rio de Janeiro: Bertrand Brasil, 1999. BRASIL. Presidência da República. Casa Civil. Lei Maria da Penha, n. 11.340, de 7 de agosto de 2006. Available at: <https://www.planalto.gov.br/ccivil_03/_Ato2004-2006/2006/ Lei/L11340.htm>. BRASIL. Secretaria Especial dos Direitos Humanos da Presidência da República. Plano Nacional de Promoção da Cidadania e Direitos Humanos de LGBT. Brasília: SEDH, 2009. BRASIL. Presidência da República. Secretaria Espacial de Políticas para as Mulheres. Enfrentando a violência contra a mulher. Brasília: SEPM, 2005. Available at: <http://www. ucamcesec.com.br/arquivos/publicacoes/manual_enfrentando_violencia.pdf>. CALDEIRA, Teresa P. do Rio. Cidade de muros: crime, segregação e cidadania em São Paulo. São Paulo: Editora 34/Edusp, 2000. CARRANO, Paulo César Rodrigues. Juventudes e cidades educadoras. Petrópolis: Vozes, 2003. CECCHETTO, F. Violência e estilos de masculinidades. Rio de Janeiro: Fundação Getúlio Vargas, 2004. CHAUÍ, Marilena. Participando do debate sobre mulher e violência. Perspectivas Antropológicas da Mulher: sobre mulher e violência. Vol.4. Rio de Janeiro: Zahar, 1985. GREGORI, M. S. Cenas e queixas: um estudo sobre mulheres, relações violentas e a prática feminista. São Paulo: Paz e Terra Anpocs, 1993. KNIJNIK, Jorge Dorfman; ZUZZI, Renata Pascoti (Orgs.). Meninos e meninas na educação física: gênero e corporeidade no século XXI. Jundiaí-SP: Fontoura, 2010. LOURO, Guacira Lopes. O corpo educado: pedagogias da sexualidade. Belo Horizonte: Autêntica Editora, 2010. MADIREIRA, Ana Flávia do Amaral. Gênero, sexualidade e diversidade na escola: a construção de uma cultura democrática. Tese (Doutorado). Brasília: UNB, 2007. Available at: <http://repositorio.bce.unb.br/bitstream/10482/1610/1/Tese_AnaFlaviaAmaralMadureira.pdf>. PAPA, Fernanda de Carvalho. Forito: jovens feministas presentes. São Paulo: Ação Educativa; Fundação Friedrich Ebert; Brasília: Unifem, 2009. PORTELLA, Ana Paula. Homens: sexualidades, direitos e construção da pessoa. Recife: SOS Corpo – Gênero e Cidadania; Instituto Papai, 2004. SAFIOTTI, H. Iara Bongiovani. Gênero, patriarcado e violência. São Paulo: Fundação Perseu Abramo, 2004. SANTOS, Cecília MacDowell; IZUMINO, Wânia Pasinato. Violência contra as mulheres e violência de gênero: notas sobre estudos feministas no Brasil. Available at: <http://www.fag. edu.br/professores/gspreussler/Direitos%20Humanos/Viol%EAncia%20de%20G%EAnero. pdf>. SECAD – Secretaria de Educação Continuada, Alfabetização e Diversidade. Gênero e diversidade sexual na escola: reconhecer diferenças e superar preconceitos. Cadernos SECAD. Brasília: Secad/MEC, 2007. Available at: <http://portal.mec.gov.br/secad/arquivos/pdf/ escola_protege/caderno5.pdf>. SENTO-SÉ, João. (Org.). Segurança pública – Outros olhares, novas possibilidades. Brasília: Secretaria Especial de Políticas para as Mulheres, 2009. SOU DA PAZ. Projeto Juventude, Gênero e Espaço Público. São Paulo: Sou da Paz, 2007. Available at: <http://soudapaz.org/Portals/0/Downloads/genero.pdf>. STREY, Marlene Neves et al. Violência, gênero e políticas públicas. Porto Alegre: EDIPUCRS, 2004. TEIXEIRA, Marina Sidrim; MOORE, Fanny Elisabete. A mulher e o esporte: a experiência dos municípios do Rio de Janeiro e de São Paulo. Rio de Janeiro: Instituto Noos, 2008 (Relatório final/pesquisa). UNIÃO DE MULHERES DE SÃO PAULO (vários autores). Violência contra a mulher e impunidade: uma questão política. São Paulo, União de Mulheres, 2007. UNIFEM. O progresso das mulheres no Brasil Brasília: Unifem, 2006. Available at: <www. mulheresnobrasil.org.br>.