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14 | Um Travesseiro Para Dois
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cheguei em casa,
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18 | Um Travesseiro Para Dois
FRPSDUWLOKDPVREUHDPRU7XGRTXHYHMRp
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das nossas atitudes, ou seja, se tivesse
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dia gostoso, ou me punindo por novamente
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TXDQGR WXGR R TXH YRFr PDLV TXHU p TXH
QmRÀTXHPRVMXQWRVGHPDQHLUDDOJXPD
6mRDVQRVVDVDWLWXGHVTXHFRPSURYDPDV
QRVVDVYRQWDGHVQmRDVQRVVDVSDODYUDV
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YRFrQmRTXHULDQDGDHHXDFDEHLGHDOJXma maneira atrapalhando o seu dia, pois
PH LPDJLQR FKDPDQGR YRFr QR FKDW YRFr
YHQGRRPHXQRPHHSHQVDQGR´4XHVDFR
20 | Um Travesseiro Para Dois
Oi YHP GH QRYRµ ( SRU PDLV ORXFXUD TXH
LPDJLQDULVVRSRVVDSDUHFHUpH[DWDPHQWH
RTXHYRFrPRVWUD
&RUDo}HV SUHFLVDP GH DEUDoRV QmR GH
PHQVDJHQVGHVDXGDGH
(VWRX IDODQGR TXH XP SHTXHQR JHVWR GH
YHUGDGHXPSHTXHQRJHVWRDRYLYRXPSHTXHQRJHVWRVLQFHURpPHOKRUGRTXHDPDLV
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2SUREOHPDpTXHÀFRWULVWHSRLVVHWHP
XPDFRLVDTXHDSUHQGLQHVWDYLGDpQmRSROLFLDUPHXVVHQWLPHQWRVQHPGHL[DUGHID]HU
DV FRLVDV TXH TXHUR 6y TXH HVVD YRQWDGH
WRGDDFDEDH[DWDPHQWHQRPRPHQWRHPTXH
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TXHUHQGRSRUGRLV(LVVRDFRQWHFHXKRMH
1mRpSDUDVRDUFRPRVHHXHVWLYHVVHGHVHVSHUDGRHPHVWDUSHUWRGHYRFrpVREUHR
MHLWRTXHYRFrOHYDDVXDYLGDHHPFRPRp
LQMXVWRHVEUDYHMDUGHSRLVSHORVTXDWURFDQWRVVREUHRTXDQWRDVFRLVDVQmRGmRFHUWR
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KRMH PDLV GR TXH QXQFD TXLV PH SRXSDU
TXLV HYLWDU SHQVDU TXH WHQKR WDQWD FRLVD
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